18+ · App for couples
Find out what you both want.
Each of you answers a questionnaire of 150+ activities on your own. Kinkly compares your answers and shows only what you have in common. Nobody ever sees the rest.
Free to start · One-time purchase unlocks everything · No subscription
How it works
17 categories, from the gentlest to the most intense. An info button on every activity, and no need to fill everything in.
Each profile generates its own QR code. One scan and your comparison is ready. No account needed.
An overall score, a score for each category, and a list of the desires you share. Anything you don't have in common never shows up.
No one reads your answers. Not even us.
Stored on your device
The questionnaire stays on your phone. The cloud only comes into play if you create an account.
Mutual consent
A comparison result only appears if both of you agree to reveal it.
Biometric lock
The app locks as soon as it goes into the background. Fingerprint, Face ID or your device passcode.
Understand before you answer
A glossary, an FAQ and guides, so you start the questionnaire knowing what it's all about.
60 terms, simply explained
Consent, safeword, soft limit, switch, aftercare, RACK. No jargon and no judgment.
The 12 questions we get asked
Privacy, one-time purchase, switching phones, iOS Family Sharing, comparing without an account.
Mini compatibility test
Ten questions online to get a feel for how it works, before you download the app.
The hardest conversation,
in ten minutes.
Download Kinkly and answer at your own pace, each on your own.